Hi. Welcome to practo pro. I read your query and I understand your concern. From the image that you have posted, it looks like a skin tag from a possible old fissure in ano. You can remove it surgically, for which I advise you to get my online consultation. Following surgery, you might need 4 to 6 weeks rest to recover and heal properly until you can restart having intercourse anally.
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