Having safe sex is of extreme importance just not to avoid unwanted pregnancy but also to protect oneself from sexually transmitted infections which are rampant. Consult a good sexologist and discuss the various options of contraceptions available and have enjoy healthy sex life. A home pregnancy test done with the first morning sample of urine might reflect whether or not the lady is pregnant. If she is kinky go to a good gynecologist and you can go in for a chemical termination instead of a D&C. Anyways please seek medical help if the lady is pregnant. All the best.

One must be taking onus of our actions. Having intercourse without protection 15 days before menses, without using protection is likely to result in pregnancy. If her date of menses has been missed, why not do a urine pregnancy test? Do a urine pregnancy test by using the firsts ample of urine passed tomorrow morning. If that test is positive, she has become pregnant and hence of the need, be an abortion can be done, at the earliest. BUT do it ONLY with a Gynecologist as there are many medical shop owners and some unscrupulous doctors who will promise to give you an "abortion" pill at exhorbitant costs and leave you alone. BUT its illegal for them to sell it. But if it is negative, then the delay is just because of stress. Eating papaya does not abort any pregnancy. Even if it causes one to bleed, the abortion is NOT total, and it may cause more harm than good. If papayas were to cause abortions, doctors would shut their abortion centers. So dont just wish away the pregnancy, confirm its existence or non existence and act on the result