* Establish Consistent Routines: Create predictable daily schedules, especially for bedtime, meals, and transitions (like changing clothes/bathing). Visual schedules can be helpful. * Offer Controlled Choices: Give her limited options for daily tasks (e.g., "blue shirt or red shirt?", "bath with bubbles or no bubbles?") to foster a sense of control and cooperation. * Set Clear & Calm Boundaries: Use consistent "no's" when necessary, explaining briefly and offering alternatives. Avoid lengthy arguments and power struggles. * Prioritize Positive Reinforcement: Catch her being good! Shower her with specific praise and small rewards for cooperation, flexibility, and attempts at independence. * Gradual Social Exposure: Introduce her to other children and new people slowly, starting with short, supervised interactions and gradually increasing duration/intensity. Don't force social engagement. * Prepare for Separations: Talk about departures and returns clearly and consistently. Practice very short separations with trusted caregivers to build confidence. * Address Sleep Issues Systematically: Implement a calming bedtime routine. If she cries, use a consistent check-in method without prolonged engagement. Ensure a sleep-friendly environment. * Validate Emotions, Guide Behavior: Acknowledge her feelings ("I see you're frustrated") but firmly guide her towards acceptable behaviors and expectations. * Don't Rush Schooling: Given her current challenges, prioritize building social and coping skills at home. Consider very small, gentle group settings or a gradual introduction if school is pursued. * Seek Professional Guidance: If behaviors persist, are severe, or significantly impact family life, consult a pediatrician, child psychologist