Hello concerned mom, As you have rightly mentioned that you don't spend quality time with your daughter she has forces to seek somebody to spend some time with her. Quality time is not hrs together with your children even of it is half an hour per day with a lot of concern and non questioning mode children will. Definitely open up with their parents.As she is stepping get into adolescents you need to become her friend and understand her requirements. If possible consult a counsellor near by your place. Happy motherhood.