Hi, I'm 23 years old and am starting to newly indulge in intercourse.. The first time was very painful, it was difficult for my boyfriend to get in and I asked him to stop after he had entered as I couldn't stand the pain but there was no blood. The second time we tried again, it was easier for him to enter, but there was still a stinging pain. I know it takes some time to get used to intercourse and let the pain turn into pleasure, but I just wanted to know if I should get myself checked once since I am becoming sexually active. I wanted to know for how long is it normal to feel that pain, until it feels pleasurable. Also, we have always used condoms as contraceptives, since I know the pills have a lot of side effects. My period cycle hasn't been affected becuase I have had intercourse. Is there anything we can do to reduce the pain? Or something you would suggest I should keep in mind even otherwise. Looking forward to your response. Thank you. :)