1 painful insertion mainly 2reason either space less in vagina or less lubrication during sex 2-any stress tension pressure about ur perfoamnce or satify partner?

Hi, firstly about ur wife, she  being vergin, leads to such tightness and Painful . U will require to be patient and give her time to prepare herself as due to anxiety and fear of first time. For u since u had fail in first few attempts u have started getting stress and anxious about it leading to failure, firstly its not competition nor exam, where u require to prove urself, just relax let moments guide u and don't force urself , things will happen. Enjoy each other for few days without intercourse and develop ur relationship rest will fellow. Please feel free to contact me if you have any questions.