You need couple counseling sessions at the first. Just taking sessions for yourself is not going to help you at all. The maintaining cause is still active .... That is MIL and husband. They should also be part of sessions if you want to expect few changes.

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Hi You are not happy with your mother-in law. The way your husbands family thinks is different to how your family thinks. Your husbands family is conservative and male dominant while your family is liberal. Your husbands family does not help with household chores whereas you have been brought up in a household where there is strong family bonding. You have seen your father help your mother. You feel your husband helps you a lot. You feel you are getting some amount of support from your husband. You want to know how you can handle the in-law situation at home. A psychologist will help you handle the situation with a calm state of mind. With a psychologist you can also talk about your personality, your husbands personality, and the kind of communication that happens between you and your husband. Do not worry counselling sessions will help you

Hi mam, Detailed history needed , For now  some things we have to consider ,at old age it's difficult to mend behavior ,they are more insecure and uncertain about the future so they are more likely try and control others out of frustration. But no need to worry u just focus on positive activities,your health ,husband and career. You can contact any psychologist  they will help you realise the situation,or can contact me eight one six nine five two nine four two four

Hi... These kind of situations are very complex and sometimes loosing on some matters help us win bigger goals. Marriage, especially in India is a complex Web of social, emotional, financial and personal relationships. Where everyone has suffered at one point of time and gained a lot of support, most of which we hardly acknowledge. Now since we are still in a transition phase as a society our expectations are a strange mix of Indian and Western values. In your particular case I will suggest you to start reconciliation with your MIL. We all have good and bad sides to our personality and our behaviour depends upon our perception of the other person and the situation. Doing this may not immediately change her behaviour towards you but there are other stakeholders in the family who are also witnessing what is happening and they are most likely to witness your efforts. Most importantly, your husband will also witness it eventually and your relationship with him will get better. Remember, your efforts has to be genuine and consistent. You don't need to overdo things but you need to give her the respect of her social status (MIL).