There may be a difference in expectations or even the language of expression , verbal or non verbal may be different for both of you.
Try and not bear the blame .
You may write to each other about expectations discreetly and not criticise.
Next Steps
If things don't work out or you feel very stressed as apparent then seek help from a psychiatrist.
Health Tips
Cloud of negativity may make u feel biased towards just one aspect of the situation.