Hello Friend, Good that you are seeking a help here. I can understand your suitation. Sometimes priorities in life influence and decides your course of life. In your suitation your father's health and post graduation are impacting your marriage, but both are key priorities. In this suitation, you need to stay calm and manage the suitation. You need to control the emotional thoughts around marriage . Explore the alternative of getting married and still able to continue this responsibilities. You may need some counselling guidance to handle such thoughts and stay focused. Consult a psychologists for support or reach us online.