Hello there.  I can understand your concern.  Be clear as to what you want. Do you want to keep it or not? And what do you want to donate? Are you even serious right now? You can donate it after giving birth to it. If you are thinking of taking it out and giving it to someone, please be informed, it doesnt work like that.  Once its taken out, its dead! Whats wrong with you? If you do not want a child now, why do it without protection. Its really taking a toll on the female's body. Do you even know how weak she is getting? All this is not a joke. You need to be more mature. Consult a gynaecologist in person for further evaluation and management. Best regards. Dr. Anil kumar jain. Bangalore.