It can be well managed with counseling sessions and homeopathic medicine effectively.

Connect with psychiatrist or sexologist

Fetishism is a form of paraphilia too. Have you ever tried to get a professional assessment through a psychologist, of your sexual preferences, fantasies and needs to ascertain if they really fall into the range of disorders? Or is it a diagnosis that you have arrived at on your own? Many times, slightly differing sexual needs, preferences, fantasies etc. may be normal. With this I would suggest you to consult a psychologist and get an assessment of your issues made and to undertake therapy if required.

Hi.. Please try to understand this, having a sexual preference is not a sin or crime. Choosing unethical/illegal ways of fulfilling them is an issue. If this fetish of yours is within your control and you are able to regulate your preferences as per social and legal norms then you just need to accept it. It is not something that needs to be changed. Erectile dysfunction may happen due to various factors including excessive stress on sexual performance. You need to consult a Psychologist or a Sexologist to discuss your issues in an open, non-judgemental, confidential, and safe setting. It will help you relieve the stress & stigma associated with having a different sexual preference. It will also provide you guidance on how to deal with the distress effectively.