I am 28 years old male now. Since childhood I need to urinate frequently that means Over active urinary bladder and from last 4 years feeling mild urge incontinence . But I can't take bladder relaxing medicines as they cause hard stool which leads to anal fissure and for this anal fissure once surgery was done and doctor told you  always need to keep your stool soft otherwise it will recur. So my question is Without taking oral medication other treatment option is available ???