Probably you need to consult a Counselling Psychologist who can work closely to empower your life skills. Fear of failure due to past experiences could be one of the inhibitions that makes you postpone any work. Understanding and bonding with your spouse will be a critical thing as you are stepping into 60s, where care, love and affection and understand between husband and wife is important.
Next Steps
take appointment and consult a Counselling Psychologist