Hi Stress leads to hair fall. You need lifestyle modification, like less junk food(fast food), proper sleep. Sometimes, dietary deficiency of Vitamin D3 and Iron can lead to hair fall. You need blood tests for Serum Vitamin D3 and Serum Ferritin. Also, minoxidil and finasteride is the only proven medical management for hair fall. If it is significant, you might need hair transplant, by a Plastic Surgeon.

Shaving has no effect on hairloss or its treatment. You have not been councelled properly. You may be suffering from androgenic alopecia which is also called as pattern baldness. The hairs start reducing in density at the crown (top) and also the hairline starts refeeding  from the front. This is usually progressive throughout life unless treated. This may also be accompanied by severe dandruff. The FDA approved treatment for this condition is a lotion and tablets. There is no other alternative. No oil or cream will magically work because the hairs are getting miniaturised  and eventually disappearing due to the hormonal effects on the hair roots. Along with this, you can also consider platelet rich plasma therapy for faster results. Please call me or  contact me with photos using online consult option for proper examination and treatment. Do not start treatment without consulting. I can give guidance and then you can continue treatment on your own.