No one can influence or ruin another. The ability to get attached or attracted by such things is basically in one's own mind. So beware of your mind. What exactly your mind is thinking. Not the external world but the our own internal world is more dangerous to our life. Work upon your own mind, its thoughts, its nature....
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What we think that we are in life. .so all situation, people, every thing we plan, choose in our life.... This is scientific... proven.. can read Dr Brian Weiss or Your Soul's Plan etc.