Hello, so I’ve been with my boyfriend for 3 years and we’ve been having sex our entire relationship but it always really hurts me. It’s never been enjoyable to me. It feels like I’m a Venus fly trap. Whenever he comes inside me my body want to clap shut. I’m not really sure why this happens but nothing seems to make a difference. We’ve tried lubricants, more forplay and nothing seems to help. How do I fix this issue so I can enjoy having sex with my boyfriend?