Hello Friend, Good that you are seeking a help here. I can understand your suitation. It's clearly stress related to lack of your personal time with your husband is causing you all these troubles.
You may need a marriage counseling support to figure out ways to handle your anxiety problems. Secondly, you can also find suitable ways to bring your husband attention even with the available time. There are things you can do to make him realize his mistakes and change.
Next Steps
Feel free to reach out to me online through Practo app for details evaluation and suitable solutions that you can follow practically to overcome. Don't hesitate as you have taken the first step of reaching here for help.
You will be alright soon.