I have got a horrible phobia! Never in my life I let water go into my ears (don't swim), have to use valium to be able to fly due to my ear sensitivity to altitude changes (have even ruptured things in my ears). Basically my ears can't handle the pressure. I might be facing the ear cleaning after the ear drum perforated in my left ear. To say I am very scared of this is an understatement of the year. I'm not able to tolerate any instruments in my ears. Can they sedate me for this? I'm 29.