When you are used to different arousal patterns earlier - masturbation techniques and using the materials to stimulate this can happen. It's fairly a common problem I see In a lot of Men who are getting used to intercourse.
Next Steps
Don't panic - it makes it worse .
Try to be more relaxed and feel more sensual with the partner rather than focusing on the ejaculation itself. Build the arousal .
Enjoy the sexual act and don't look for outcome itself
Reduce or stop mastrubation for a while till you break this cycle.
Dr Shivadev M. MD(Psy), FECSM(Fellow of European Society for Sexual Medicine)
Psychiatrist and Sexologist
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