I have kissed multiple people in the past that were my age 16 and virgins. recently ive started dating my boyfriend and he wanted to have oral sex. im not so confident in that because i dont know if he has any sort of viruses. he's had oral sex with his ex but is still a virgin. in my case, i have had cystic pimples on my vagina before at age 11-14. i have a temporary bump just on my periods. recently realized, always had white bumps around my vagina since as long as i remember. is it herpes??