Hi there..I can understand your distress.. Chronic nonbacterial prostatitis is a condition that causes pain and inflammation in the prostate (gland located directly below the bladder). It is a common condition, especially in men between the ages of 30 and 50, but it can lead to serious sexual and urinary problems if left untreated and chronic pain could cause depression.. causes include viral infection, parasites, uncommon bacterial infection, chemicals, past bacterial infection.. symptoms include frequent urination, pain during urination, low backpain, problems with ejaculation, constipation. treatment includes antibiotics, alpha blockers, Nsaids for pain, stool softeners for constipation, cranberry juice helps in alleviating urinary pain, relaxation exercises, acupuncture, if severe symptoms then rarely surgery like prostatectomy..