1. Criticism is the biggest spoiler in the marriage. It means Condemnation and Fault-Finding. It also means Keep Complaining to the Partner about him/her or family and relatives. Marriage Counselling helps you how to receive and deliver appreciation in your marriage/relationship.
  2. Contempt also spoils the marriage. It means Scorn, Disrespect, Disregard and Sarcasm towards the partner. It also includes Name Calling to the partner. Marriage Counselling helps you to give and take respect.
  3. Nagging is a common mistake people often do in marriage. It means telling the partner what to do not to do, how to do and when to do. Marriage Counselling helps you to re-frame your words during conversations.
  4. Defensiveness means Thwarting. Getting into blame game spoils marriage or relationship. Marriage Counselling helps you how to be assertive in a positive way.
  5. Stonewalling means Evasive. It is Turning Away from the partner rather than confronting. It also means emotionally withdrawing from the partner. Marriage Counselling helps you how to deal with the issues in spite of avoidance.
  6. Withholding Intimacy means constantly decline physical affection or sexual relationship. It creates differences between the partners. Marriage Counselling helps you to improve your sexual relationship.