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Dr. Neerja Thergaonkar - Psychologist

Dr. Neerja Thergaonkar

PhD - Psychology , MA - Psychology , Arts Based Therapist

Clinical Psychologist , 13 Years Experience

92% (25 votes)
I am a licensed consultant rehabilitation psychologist with specialization in clinical psychology with more than 10 years experience. I have a special interest more..

Feel very scared all time

My wife is very dominating. She is very supportive financially. She helps me with contacts as well. But when we don't agree with even small things she gets too angry  says to give me a divorce. She even threatens me wit law suit.  Please help me out. Thank you
         

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Dr. Neerja Thergaonkar answered

I understand that you feel threatened as you feel that your wife is domineering. As you mentioned, s ... View Answer

Idk wht to do

Have headache almost daily, sometimes (mostly) a bad one too, get frustrated easily, blame myself for everything, talk to others rudely then over think about what i did but never tell others anythn lyk wht i think/do, cant concentrate on studies , want to talk to mom dad calmly but everytime i start i end up fighting,

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Dr. Neerja Thergaonkar answered

Hello!! I believe you've been having unexplained headache and have been irritable for the past few d ... View Answer

Dwarka

, Delhi

Malhotra Clinic

#5 & 6, 1st Floor, Plot No. 2, Manish Twin Plaza, Sector-4, Landmark : Next To KFC, Delhi

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FRI

11:00 AM - 2:00 PM
6:00 PM - 8:00 PM

INR 1,000

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NOTE: Fees is payable at clinic.There are NO charges for booking an appointment.

This fee is indicative and might vary.

NOTE: Fees is payable at clinic. There are NO charges for booking an appointment.

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3 months ago
1) RED FLAG1: Lacked empathy.
Blaming the client for the very shortcomings for which they seek treatment.

You go to an ortho doctor for remedy for soft weak bones due to which you keep falling down n
1) RED FLAG1: Lacked empathy.
Blaming the client for the very shortcomings for which they seek treatment.

You go to an ortho doctor for remedy for soft weak bones due to which you keep falling down n get yourself fractured. And the doctor scolds you, "What's the point of regretting after falling down! You deliberately fall down n end up with fracture?"
Does it make any sense?

I went to this therapist for managing rage due to flashbacks from traumatic past affecting my life n relationships with my baby n husband. And the doctor scolds me, "What's the point of apologizing to your husband after rage when you don't mean it! You say what you have to n destroy everything with your words"

What a style of therapy!
Does that help me in overcoming my rage?
The very reason I proactively sought therapy means I am aware of the immense damage it's causing n I need help.

2) She assumes n keeps speaking. She doesn't ask probing questions for better understanding.

3) She seems obsessed with her voice. She doesn't mind even interrupting client. Introverted people like me, especially, those who struggle with expressing feelings verbally, experience a hard time n I struggled to express feelings freely.

4) She is not a good listener.

5)RED FLAG 2:
Passed judgmental remarks twice during first half of very first session.
People with traumatic past who have been abused, accused, blamed, treated like physical outline without feelings, treated like doormats, all this by one's own mother because of her Narcissistic Personality Disorder-----such people are living on the verge of a steep cliff, dealing with suicidal thoughts.

Judgmental remarks n pin pointing flaws do considerable damage. They should instead choose to help them heal n move to a safer area, first n foremost.

6) Therapist lacks insight into nature of Complex Trauma. Shallow knowledge on complex trauma.
She said, "Even when trauma is gone, they feel smug in continuing in a victim loop"
True for one time event like PTSD.
But in CPTSD, trauma never stops because your disordered mother keeps abusing you not only as long as she lives but even after her death because the client feels trapped by and unable to run away from the voice of mother in the head.

7) Lacked empathy and failed to validate my feelings. Opportunity for connecting with client lost.

8) She interrupts, cuts short my sentences and misinterprets n starts advising me.
Eg. If I want to say, "Difference of opinion doesn't exist between my husband n me"
She will interrupt as soon as I say the words "Difference of opinion…" jump the gun and start lecturing me on how difference of opinion is a normal part of relationship n tips on how to solve it.

9) Partly, I hold PRACTO responsible for failing to provide me with an expert on cptsd or complex trauma. Please check the numerous mails to customer care.


To PRACTO,
Call me, if you must, ONLY when you have found a therapist who understands first hand what complex trauma is, a therapist who has undergone that themselves & done self healing.

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Personality Assessment
IQ Assessment
Post Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD)
Anxiety Disorders Treatment
Early Parenting Issues
Low Confidence
Concentration Problems
Emotional Outbursts
Child and Adolescent mental health issues
Remedial Management with special needs children
Remedial Management of High Risk Newborns
Poor scholastic performance
Speech Delay
Developmental Delay
Test Anxiety and study skills
Positive Parenting
Post delivery counselling
Post surgery counselling
Depression Counselling
Career related stress
Work stress
Developmental Assessment
Neuro developmental Assessment
Cognitive-behaviour Therapy
Arts Based Therapy
play therapy
Online Counseling
Stress Management

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Education

PhD - Psychology - University of Pune, 2007

MA - Psychology - SNDT University Mumbai, 1998

Arts Based Therapist - WCCL Foundation Pune, 2015

Memberships + View all (6) - View less

Member of American Psychological Association

Life Associate Member of Indian Association of Clinical Psychologists

Life Member of Bombay Psychological Association

Member of Association of Counselors of India.

Member National Association of Psychologist (NAOP)

Life Member if Indian Association of Child and Adolescent Mental Health

Registrations

A36795 Rehabilitation Council of India (RCI), 2013

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