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One of my close friend loves me unconditionally..i dont love him..infact my marriage is fixed...but i cannot ignore him as he is my good friend..he text me in whatsapp..i have to reply him...but i cant block him...
The whole condition make me stressed out..
How to handle with this situation??
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Hi. Quite interesting and doubtful context. You know love is a reciprocal acrivity. You do something and other person do in return. Positivity is love. Decide now. Whose reciprocation catches your mind intensely! Who makes you feel down during his absence! Choose between real nearness or proximity and virtual farawayness
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Dear human, thank you for sharing and reaching out. For any kind of relationship troubles, honest and clear communication leads to better understanding. You've mentioned that he is a good friend of yours, so I think you should explain to him clearly on how you feel about this. Be direct, straightforward while you communicate, do not beat around the bush, allow him to express his thoughts, listen to him and express your own opinions. Every relationship needs to have boundaries to have a long-term effect and this goes for your friendship too!
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Be clear to him saying that you only see him as close friend and not anything else. Then you maintain your relationship with friendship purity and move on. Its hard to accept the situation for him. But your actions will make him come out as a close friend
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Every relation ship has boundaries. Please explain him that. Don’t feel guilty of being a friend to a man.
If you could share more details on the things , we could share a clear response.
If you are not comfortable , you may explain him that you are moving into a different stage of life and will not be able to give him the same time as before
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Explain him well
He is your friend so he will understand
Your priorities are straight and he will respect it
And discuss with a mental health professional for your sound health
Consult with me or any psychologist for therapy and counseling online
All the best
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Ms. Hema Sampath
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18 yrs exp
Bangalore
Have a healthy discussion with him and make him understand that you have decided someone else as your life partner and you are not available to him anymore..
If he doesn't understand, atleast up until your marriage, block him, so that , it doesn't distract you and keep you in confusion..
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