Im currently dating with a girl of 19 years old. She shared some story of her life.
1. She was sexually abused in her childhood by her own brother who is 8 years older than her!
2. She lost her virginity when she was 11 years old by that person.
3. She is being sexual relationship with her 8 yrs older brother since then.
4. Now she feels ok about it and it has been now consensual.
5. She first told me she was forced to do that. But I think it is now has been consensual
6. She told me she doesn't want to get married soon.
She doesn't want to meet any phychologist either.
NOW I CAN'T FEEL GOOD ABOUT IT!!!
What to do?? Should I break up with that girl??? I feel fear to fully stop talking cuz then her brother is gonna be more benefited if she is not talking with any other guy!
WHAT TO DO NOW , SHOULD I BE OKAY WITH IT ?
MY MIND IS HURTING!!!
PLZZZ HELP!!!
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She is very young & needs ur help. Don't stop loving her. She needs councelling from a psychologist.
If she refuses for councelling, tell her in a polite manner,that she needs to choose either you or her brother.
This is a very serious situation my dear. You have to help her in coming out of this and this will happen only once she realizes whatever is happening to her is a sexual harassment.
Don't be scared of her brother. And if u really care for her, u should help her. She spoke to u about this, which means even she wants to come out of this.
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