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My child is 22 old & b.com holder& pursue ICWA.She shares all as Iam friendly. Iam well settled in Chennai. My daughter says she loves a boy who s 9years older than her & he s B.A MBA CORESS. He s sportsmen teaching sports in school at weekends & earning 25 per month n not settled& lost his dad . Her friends "insult for loving old guy with low salary & if u complete ICWA as cost auditor u 'll earn in lakhs"She adds he s trying for business & will earn upto 70k &own a house by 3 yrs. She worries if he settles ok but if he didn't settle how can I marry him. If I didn't marry how can I live. She loves him from her11th. She says he s loving caring& no1 can love her like that,she can't even be without talking in phone for a day. Without him I have to live like a dead body. I enquired he s a good boy with good character. But i am worried she don't know to take decision and i am also. How can I accept a boy who s not of equal status to my daughter. She to worries of it but Loves him. Help me
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Dr. Satish Ramaiah Bangalore | Addiction Psychiatrist
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Relationships and life works on alignment and adaptability. It is important to be clear about what an individual wants, what are the priorities and what are they ready to forgo. This need to be seen in the context of individual characteristics, social situations, family expectations and cultural issues. I suggest your daughter to meet a therapist on an individual basis and also family counselling would help to get an alignment and come to terms. Regards
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