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Mental Confusions, Anxiety, Stress
I am 31 year old woman from Jharkhand. I have a younger sister who is 27 now and mom at home. My dad passed away when I was 20 yr old. Cut short. I am in a relationship with a tamil guy for almost 6 years. Everyone including family and relatives are against this relationship. My mom and sister have agreed to it though. Once in a while I still get threats and calls that I will be socially boycotted in future by my relatives. I had been ignoring all of these till this time. In laws are super cool and quite down to earth people. However I feel a sense of fear always inside me if I am doing the right thing. This has been going for a long time. the very thing that worries me is- will my sister get a good alliance since my mom means that after all this drama our family has already lost its respect in the society and nothings good gonna happen to her. I have started to feel guilty and selfish for quite sometime now and I don't feel confident in my relationship or my workplace anymore. thanks
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Difficult state to be in. It is a conflict between what you want to do and what society expects you to do. Societal pressure is not easy to endure. Your current emotional state is arising due to this conflict.
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you need to try and look at it from an objective point of view and decide what advice would you give if your friend is in the same state. an expert help can be taken to analyse this conundrum but you have to eventually take your own decision. there is no ready made solution to your problem
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don't take any decision hurriedly and emotionally. spend sometime on it and then only decide what direction you want to take
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