I am 18 year old and I am addicted to masturbation since I wasn't class 7th. I have to leave this addiction. It's been 5 years and I did this many many times. Now I have to stop this but I can't. I've tried many things like getting busy, reading good books, avoiding phone, social media and pornography, I even started gym also but still all of a sudden (specially in night when I'm sleeping) urge comes and I wake up, loose my control and again I masturbate. I know this sounds kinda funny but pls help me I have to build up my self control. I can't even talk to my parents about this topic, friends are not supportive... They make fun of me. And in the end of the day I feel like a lost human who can't even control himself. Please respected doctors, help me. 🥺
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It seems to be a psychosexual obsession leading to OCD-like symptoms.
It needs to be treated asap otherwise it may get complicated and can affect your personal and sexual life.
It needs to be addressed in a holistic approach for complete recovery.
It can be well treated with counseling sessions and homeopathic medicine effectively and without any side effects.
You need an expert sexologist who is a good homeopathic physician and psychologist.
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First of all, thank you for sharing this so honestly. Many young men experience the same struggle, and it does not mean you are weak or lacking willpower. Masturbation itself is not harmful, but when it becomes compulsive, feels out of your control, or causes guilt and affects your daily life, it is worth addressing.
From your description, the main issue is loss of control over the urge, especially at night, despite making sincere efforts to change. This is more like a habit loop than a physical problem. The encouraging part is that habits can be changed with the right strategy and consistency. Recovery does not happen because of one decisionâit happens through many small, repeated changes over time.
Next Steps
Instead of aiming to never masturbate again, focus on gradually regaining control. Identify what usually triggers the urgeâsuch as lying awake in bed, boredom, loneliness, or stressâand make a specific plan for those moments. If you wake up at night with an urge, get out of bed for a few minutes, drink some water, walk around, or practice slow breathing until the intensity decreases. Avoid staying in bed struggling with the urge, as this often makes it stronger. Also, try not to judge yourself after a relapse. One episode does not erase your progress. Keep track of your triggers and improvements rather than counting failures. If the urges remain overwhelming or begin to affect your studies, mood, or daily functioning, speaking with a mental health professional or a doctor experienced in behavioral health can be very helpful. They can teach techniques such as cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT), which has good evidence for managing compulsive habits. For personalized guidance, behavioral support, and a holistic approach, you may connect with us at 9 3 1 5 6 6 1 5 6 5.
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Continue your gym routine, maintain 7â9 hours of regular sleep, eat a balanced diet, and avoid pornography if it is a trigger for you. Keep your phone away from your bed at night, and develop a consistent bedtime routine to reduce nighttime awakenings. Most importantly, be patient with yourself. Building self-control is a gradual process, not an overnight achievement. The fact that you recognize the problem and are actively trying to improve is a strong first step, and with persistence and the right support, many people successfully overcome compulsive masturbation habits. Thank you
Hello,
First of all, I want to reassure you that you are not alone, and there is no need to feel ashamed. Many teenagers and young adults experience frequent masturbation and struggle to control their urges. The good news is that this habit can be managed with the right approach.
From what you’ve described, it appears that the issue is not masturbation itself, but the loss of control over the behavior, which may be related to compulsive habits and repeated exposure to sexual thoughts or pornography.
Here are a few suggestions that may help:
* Avoid pornography and other sexual triggers, as they reinforce the habit and make urges more frequent.
* Maintain a regular exercise routine, sleep on time, and keep yourself engaged in productive activities during the day.
* Night-time urges are common. If you wake up with sexual thoughts, get out of bed, drink some water, wash your face, or read something calming instead of acting on the urge.
* Do not aim for “never masturbating again.” Instead, gradually reduce the frequency. Setting realistic goals is much more effective than trying to stop overnight.
* Remember that masturbation in moderation is a normal sexual behavior and does not cause weakness, loss of masculinity, infertility, or permanent sexual problems. The concern arises only when it becomes excessive, compulsive, or starts affecting your studies, sleep, relationships, or mental well-being.
Since you’ve been struggling for several years despite making sincere efforts, I would recommend consulting a qualified sexologist. A confidential consultation can help identify the underlying triggers, teach urge-control techniques, and, if necessary, provide treatment for compulsive sexual behavior or associated anxiety.
Most importantly, don’t blame yourself. Recovery is a gradual process, and with proper guidance, self-control can be rebuilt.
Dr. Fayyaz
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