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I lost my son on July 16th
Hi doctor, I gave birth to my second child July 8, he left me in just 8 days. I am feeling broken, I feel I lost my life. I feel guilty I did some thing wrong so I lost my kid. But I am unable to share my feelings with any one. Every one around me saying I should take care of my elder daughter now. But the loss what I went through is some thing which is not allowing me to sleep. Also the process of delivery, here in chennai hospital played a game in extracting money, I am not able to digest what all went through in the process of delivery. I know my kid is no more, but my heart is not accepting the fact still...
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Hello mam, sorry for you loss. What you are going through is grief reaction, it's a very normal human response to any loss. You are in denial - unable to accept the loss which is very normal in grief. Also you have act of commission - that you are somehow responsible for the sons loss - which is also very normal in grief. Usually it takes time for grief to resolve. Give it some time, once it resolves you could able to have a normal emotional regulation, relations and responsibilities. If you couldn't able to handle it please consult with a psychiatrist. Thank you.
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im very very sorry you must be going through tremendous pressure. instead of giving you an open advice. i would like to you to take therapy from any one of us. guilt and grief both needs to be processed consult with me or any psychologist for counseling and therapy. all the best :)
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Hi i understand it must be a huge stressor for u
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u can connect with me through practo for consult
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Hi dear..I understand the pain u went through and u r still going through. This a huge loss for a mother and it's very normal for you to feel so. N the grief is the most important part to eventually heal yourself.
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it would take time for you to heal from all this. if u feel u want to take a professional help,u must seek one in this difficult times.
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u can contact me through online tele-consultation for  consultation
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