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I am a 24 years old virgin girl.
Hi having said above, I'm 24 years old and have never had any kind of sexual contact with any person. Not that I'm asexual just that I am born and bought up in a traditional Indian family where sex before marriage is a taboo. I had few failed relationships limited to oral kissing only, currently I'm single because of various experiences in the past & hence a relationship is a bad idea even for the future but lately I feel really struck, I feel the need to have sex (heterosexual) which I'm unable to have access to due to societal pressure and fear of pregnancy & personal insecurities. I feel low and constant despair, I sleep a lot, I feel the lack of a male counter part physical contact, I have developed acne and hair loss & really feel that my body is in dismay due to lack of sexual advances. I seldom masturbate which does not seem to satisfy me enough. This feeling of wanting sex is so strong that it drove me to this forum. Kindly help in respect to if I should have sex or not and how
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I can see no answers to these kinds of questions. So I am trying to provide one. I can understand the stigma behind such questions. But we need to understand that sexual need is a biological function just like any other biological functions, say sleep and hunger. Coming to your problem, the sexual urges vary from individual to individual. But the good news is that it can be managed. There are several methods like distraction, relaxation etc. Knowing these techniques is better than getting involved in some sort of dangerous activity like unprotected sex. I would say the best way for you would be to communicate with a gynaecologist. But most importantly, understand that what you are facing is not a crime and you don't need to feel guilty about it which can lead you to depression. I would say that your asking a question about it in such a forum is a much mature step then just worrying and ruminating about it over and over again. Coming to sexual gratification, again, I would suggest you to meet a gynaecologist. Hope that helps. If you want further advise, you can contact our female counselors. drravi2121@gmail
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