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Relationship issues are often sensitive as it involves emotions, expectations, individual perceptions, views, values, opinions and beliefs. Although most couples would have the same fundamental differences in marriage, some end up happily married and some don't. Marital issues usually stems from failure to appreciate individual differences. While you become conscious and mindful of your own emotions, make sure that your wife's perceptions and views are appreciated. It does not mean you agree for everything. Only when an individual feels appreciated they are likely to listen to others. Take things objectively and as a matter of fact. Allow and respect the differences in perceptions. Let her feel that you completely understand her world and request her to understand your world. Stay calm. Don't get desperate or show any negative emotions or judgements about others behavior. Remember, what perceive is actually the truth for them. We got to start off by appreciating this. You both can choose to get professional help for couple therapy if problem persists. Best wishes