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Depressed because of bf getting married
I am married with 2 kids. I love my kids. My husband and I are living like room mates for the sake of our kids. We had a love marriage but now there is no love. 2.5 years back I joined a new office and met a guy. Within a month I fell in love with him. He was dating a girl. But I was still fine with it. I told him about my love and he too agreed. His gf dumped him. Then he was in tremendous sorrow. I was with him throwout. We even have physical relationship. But he is not very much interested in sex. We sit next to each other. My husband is aware that I go with my friend in bike everyday from railway station to office (5km). My kids also know my friend very well as he comes for family functions too. Now this guy is very practical and tough. He is not the romantic type. But I like him a lot and he likes me too. I am so addicted to him. His parents are looking for a bride to get him married. Even he is interested. I feel so possessive and I feel so depressed. Im sleepless. Help
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We need not go into the morality part here . Everything has a perspective and every action has its consequences. Question is are you ready to deal the consequences ? Kindly take a time out with yourself alone - think only abt u first , not abt this friend nor kids or husband . Look into urself why ur unable to love & accept urself completely - u wil hve d answer . Next ru fine with whatever thts currently happening in ur life - if u feel even 5% thts ntt fine , then work on it. U can cross this phase without any emotional turmoil. Tc
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consult Psychiatrist and try out if it's workable
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you have the answers . reach out with a professional who can help u unravel it
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Law of polairty always works,high low, up down, happiness sorrow
Smilarly what u were looking for a missing qualites in your husband, you achieved it.y ou were in sorrow, u got a friend,
I understand what u taste more u like to have more and own more
You r every word is true , your feelings are true, Madam but unfortunately u r living in India, traditional Indian society,
you can not adopt a western model in Indian soil
If u have Seen the movie Danish n movie "3" they adopt a western way of living in Indian soil at they end they pay a irreparable price
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don't adopt a wedter model of living in Indian soil
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God has been helping u till now,u Halp ur kids now forget and accept everything as a past dream
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Ms. Hema Sampath
Psychologist
18 yrs exp
Bangalore
Can you reflect, how the love escaped from your life!!
You are too much blocked by your emotional disturbance.
I feel you are Confused between various other reasons.
As you have taken an initiative to take a decision for your life,
Do consult a psychologist either online or offline.
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