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Thank you for sharing this honestly. Please do not think that you are alone in feeling this way. Many people experience this kind of difficulty when they’re around someone close, especially if they feel judged or anxious about making mistakes. What you're describing could be related to performance anxiety or self-esteem issues in intimate relationships. It doesn’t mean you are weak or incapable- it simply means your mind is under pressure when your husband is around, which can affect speech and coordination.

Hi Sounds heavy your mind feels more self-conscious when your husband is around almost like a pressure to perform or seek approval, which triggers anxiety and affects your fluency and confidence. This isn’t about your English skills; it’s about performance anxiety in close relationships, especially when you fear judgment or want to be seen as capable. CBT can help here by identifying the core beliefs may be Iike I must appear perfect to be respected and using thought restructuring + exposure exercises to ease this pressure. Practice doing small tasks or speaking in English deliberately with your husband, even if you fumble and resist the urge to correctyourself. The goal isn’t perfection but comfort. Take therapy. You can connect with me on nine two six six seven two six zero six five.

First you need to find out the causes and triggers that is leading to this kind of behaviour . A proper consultation will help you better .

We have to know some more details. Recently married or a long time, joint family or nuclear, are you various factors play a role. Adjustment to a new situation take around 6 months minimum for any individual.Marriage, job, pregnancy etc are such changes that need adjustment to anybody. For your query, you can follow simple life style change * Deep breathing relaxation exercise or yoga twice a day for 10-15 minutes * Read  English news on paper or mobile whatever is available( enhance your word power) * Practice in front of mirror , give speech on any topic 5-10 sentences * Appreciate yourself if you able to follow any one advice that mentioned above Never think that you are making these changes to impress any one, you are trying to bring changes for your own happiness, uplifting your confidence and self-esteem Further if you want any counsellor help, you can take help of Psychiatrist or psychologist

Hello, I understand that you fumble In front of your husband and get embarrassed , but it seems other aspects of your marriage as well as your own persona as a person needs to be explored a bit, before a mental health professional can help you out. For starters, I would recommend finding a good psychologist who can help you understand the issue and guide you to deal with it.

What you’re describing is a classic interaction between performance anxiety and emotional conditioning within close relationships. When you're alone, your speech flows because there’s no perceived threat. But around your husband, your brain switches into a hyper-aware state. This heightened self-consciousness activates your sympathetic nervous system—the same one involved in the fight or flight response—causing your verbal processing and motor coordination to stall. It’s not about your English skills or capability. It’s your brain trying to manage perceived judgment or approval pressure, which often stems from early patterns of needing validation or fear of rejection. These aren’t flaws. They are deeply conditioned neural responses that can be rewired with the right support.

Hi..maybe your husband is critical in his interaction and that may be the reason for fumbling. However will need further history regarding the same to advise appropriately. Consult online for further suggestions regarding the same