Hi... Solution is very simple but in India, it is really hard to make people come to simple solutions.
You all need Family Therapy. Since everyone won't be willing to start so you and your husband at least can start taking Counselling Sessions.
It helps like anything. You not only get a confidential, comfortable, and controlled environment/space to vent out your pent-up issues but also you get to find your own solutions to your problems.
This pandemic has caused an unprecedented situation - socially, economically, clinically, emotionally, career wise, life wise. But we can deal with it if we get little support from someone who knows how to deal with such cases. Someone who is trained, who is unbiased, and who is neutral. Someone who is not part of your social circle.
Next Steps
Consult a Psychologist and start taking Counselling Sessions.
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Mr. Gunjan Maithil
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