Hello this is your personal problem which can not solved with medicines. You should have to talk freely with your husband and if you know the girl whom he is connected; you can meet her too for the problem solution. 2. this thing shows that your husband is not interested in you, so that he is not also interested in sexual life too. this is a clear reason as he avoiding you. this is not good marriage life terms, you should have to talk once with him and then that girl too. then after you can choose your way to been separate from your husband. you need to take advise from your closest persons. Regards, Dr. Nikul Patel Ayurveda consultant Ayurveda Sexologist Ahmedabad Whtasapp - +91-98250-40844