I feel like I'm Emotionally distant

2020-01-10 14:21:27
My current boyfriend wants me to mix with his family and talk to them, but I'm a little hesitant about it. I come from an extremely dysfunctional family and my last serious relationship lasted 3years and the reason we broke up was because my ex boyfriend thought i wasnt good enough. There was a year and a half gap when i randomly dated but ran away everytime i felt the other person is getting serious. Finally I'm with this guy and he's really great but I'm very unsure about talking to his family (we have been together for 3 months almost) and he is very close to his family. Also I he wants to have a family of his own with kids and I'm again very unsure about that. Am I emotionally distant? I don't like to talk to people much and is very anti social. Is something wrong with me? Should i get checked up??
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Hi I can understand ur situation. take ur time.. 3 months is too early to settle down. Partner should be ur friend first and there should be mutual understanding. Be open minded., nonjudgemental. Don't involve too much. But at the same time  u can meet  his family members as friend.U can assess them also. Don't commit or give false hope. Sorrow comes after expectation only. U may consult with a psychiatrist also so that u can share ur feelings face to face. Thank you.

Answered2020-01-11 03:27:55

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Hi Thanks for seeking help here. I totally understand your situation. Everyone is not same. People may or may not like this. As per this discussion n your explanation. It's too much early for family level discussion. Y may be little worried as Ur not sure about him....as 3 years did not lasted long then how can 3 months...? You must few things about relationships. All relationship are time trusted ... As they grow the reality comes into play... Take ur time but....don't intimate too much is Ur not sure. Don't give false hopes if Ur not sure. In this case... Tell him what you feel he will understand completely

Answered2020-01-10 20:44:12

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