Its actually a psychogenic condition you're experiencing.
The all problems came from the suppressed emotions and the feeling of encaged.
Now you & you're husband isn't in a condition to handle these sorts of family issues.
Both of you need counselling and medication if required.
Next Steps
you can contact me by searching top homeopathic doctors in Darbhanga on your web browser. my clinic will be visible as Siddiqui Clinic.
Health Tips
try to avoid bad thoughts generated from the ill behave of surroundings. and try to practice on the good memories you've had with your husband.