8yrs _ No sexlife. He has any feelings?

Hi, we are married since 8yrs now, but Not even once v have succeeded in love making(have tried hardly 5-6times in 8yrs). Initially my husband got some alergy on his penis (after marriage in2010)he had taken medicine.. Then now from 4-4.5yrs I amre tired of hearing of he saying I am OK. Or will get OK. I think there is some erection problem. He is taking some ayurvedic medicine(no result). N he said he got side effects from private doc medicine. His sperm count is OK. Reports are fine. We live together. love each other. I care he cares. But with no physical relation(kiss, hug, no love talks nothing,) . Can men stay like this for this long??? Kindly pls help as  m afraid whether he is even interested in making love. Or he has any feelings? 8long years.. M waiting n still waiting... Met with so many docs. (giving only hope) now I want results with a affordable budget. Pls share the contact no. Will discuss n meet the doc with reports directly. Thanks